More Of the Candid Modest Reckoning of sorts.....

This is a sort of an extension to the previous blog,
but indeed more specific to the inherent turmoil !
Here is a link to the previous blog!

My very observant nature has actually led to write all this,
in the very sense of the term!

Let me tell you all, that
i also found a couple of close friends,
with whom i normally vent out,
who could very closely relate to the subject!

I sincerely hope you can relate to this one, too.

Do not misconstrue it as a lame reasoning for a failure in love..
there's much more to it..

Life is easier to take than you think;
all that is necessary is..
to accept the impossible,
do without the indispensable and
bear the intolerable.

Remember,
new lovers are born everyday!

The real thinking of woman is pre-eminently practical and applied.
It is something we describe as sound common sense,
and is usually directed to what is close at hand and personal.
In general,
it can be said that feminine mentality manifests
an undeveloped,childlike,or primitive character;
instead of the thirst for knowledge,curiosity;
instead of judgment,prejudice;
instead of thinking,imagination or dreaming;
instead of will, wishing.

Where a man takes up objective problems,
a woman contents herself with solving riddles;
where he battles for knowledge and understanding,
she contents herself with faith or superstition,
or else she makes assumptions.
AND hence you as a man is also one of her assumptions!

When you buy women a pair of shoes,
they use them to walk away from you!

I have heard not a few men say that they have given up on love.
They have no luck in love and that the only women they seem to encounter are insensitive,
lying,cheating lewd(s).
And to worsen things,
the chances of them meeting another insensitive, lying, cheating lewd is 99%.

Do you share these thoughts?

Have you ever wondered why other men
(whom you think are not as attractive,smart and interesting as you)
are blessed with wonderful relationships and you have been denied?

What's terrible is to pretend that the second-rate is first-rate.
To pretend that you don't need love when you do;
or you like your work when you know quite well you're capable of better.

When will that hand meet my own, with a grasp that causes some sensation??

Where do i get...
a clean, pure, straight, honest, upright, generous, intelligent, magnanimous companion??
I know, that is definitely not too much to ask for...

Do you have this fear that your next relationship
will turn out to be as bad as the last
and it will just be a cycle of one bad love after another.

Do you, really?

Have you ever been in love?
Horrible, isn't it?
It makes you so vulnerable.
It opens your chest and it opens your heart and
it means someone can get inside you and mess you up.
You build up all these defenses.
You build up this whole armour,
for years,
so nothing can hurt you,
then one stupid person,
no different from any other stupid person,
wanders into your stupid life...
You give them a piece of you.
They don't ask for it.
They do something dumb one day like
they'd kiss you, or smile at you,
and then your life isn't your own anymore.

It gets inside you.
It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness,
so a simple phrase like....
'maybe we should just be friends' or
'how very perceptive' turns into a splinter working its way into your heart.
It hurts.
Not just in the imagination.
Not just in the mind.
It's a soul-hurt, a body-hurt,
a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain.

I hate love

Pleasure of love lasts but a moment,
Pain of love lasts a lifetime.
The ones that you love the most are usually the ones that hurt you the most.

Ohh..hh......
He, who is not impatient, is not in love.
Could the gals relate to this??
( they are the one's who always tel us to be patient!)

HOW DO I DEFINE IT????
Love is an exploding cigar we willingly smoke!
Love is a temporary madness.
It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides.

You come to love not by finding the perfect person,
but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly!

If you judge people, you have no time to love them.
But how can you love 'somebody' ???
Anybody who appeals to your heart is being sorta judged in a way !

Is a life worth living,
without no one to love and to be loved in return?

when some one says they love u,
it just means....
they love u for that day,
the next day,
they could be running away with your best friend!

I love making friends.... it's people I can't really stand!
( Rules are prone to exceptions! )

Love one another and you will be happy.
Nothing is as simple and as difficult as that!

If you have some thing interesting to comment upon and add on .. do it..
but do not sympathize....

( Critical appreciation is the modest way of saying that
i took a Lotta pains to read all of that!)

---NVS