"What the _ _ _ _????"

As it’s the end of seemingly just another week,
I wanted to dive back into the blog with something on the lighter side of things and

what could be an easier ( not that really ) topic to bring up..
As the title of this entry infers,
I’m talking about that "f" word..
'F*** OFF'
Hmmmm....Sometimes...
i just don't understand why people like to use that F-word so much?
seriously,
i do use it at times.
but now,
in fact.....
i cant stand people using the F-word as and when they like.
Yeah....
i mean if u don't respect urself,
then just respect the listener and the people around u.
u can always use the alternative word.
that F-word has its own meaning too.
I SERIOUSLY CANT STAND THE USAGE OF F-WORDS MAN!!

its not that i'm too traditional but its just that its so not nice to use it,
'especially girls'.
Yeah..
you heard it..
especially if you don't expect it to be hurled at you..
and you are caught all off-guard..
I mean that is the least you could expect..
I never said anything that would in any manner would offend the said girl..
she was frustrated cuz of someting and what i get to here is the f-word..
hurled at me ..
having such sharp edges as though it were a weapon of war..yes ..
and the most detestable part is that..she ain't even apologetic about it..
when i tell her that ..
it was an abuse.. to me..
whether or not u intended it..
and i have never ever said.. f*** off to anybody as yet ..
in all these years of my life...
all she had to offer was that..
she'd used it more often and it was okay..
after-all she didn't exactly mean to hurl an abuse at me..
It was my mistake..
being the fact that ..
i had to bear the brunt of talkin to her at a time when she was not doin fine with her temperament..
all i wanted to do is to make her feel better ..
and with that very intention i had called her..
but to my utter dismay..
what i get here is a concentrated volume of abuse..
Indeed the 'F-word'..
Ofcourse..
A 'sorry' followed the incident..
with an explanation i already knew..
deep inside i knew that the f-word was more of a means to venting out the frustration..
but why this way..
by abusing some other person..
who is infact in the process of making you feel better..
I tried getting over it..
but seemingly so..
i can't.. what to do..??
the severity is so much so to say..
that i can't think of anything else.. as of now..
oh well,
i felt that i'm not respected when people use F word.
i mean yes,
sometimes u might be angry........pissed off or whatsoever,
but can u please control that 'filthy mouth' of yours?
i know the usage of F-words is FREE but i just don't like it.
'get lost' is what.. u wanna tell me...??
that F***ing f-word.....
sorry for that..
but i can't accept it.
and.....
all i expect...
from 'her' now...
is that..
gauging 'THE SEVERITY' of the incident..
she makes good...
from what has happened..!!
--- NVS

Don''t tell me.. why you are late...

Feeling very frustrated today.
Sometimes it seems like no matter how hard you try,

things just turn around and bite you in the backside.
I sincerely wish that consideration of others' time was a higher priority for people.
Yesterday,

I was waiting for someone at the local station.

The concerned person didn't arrive at the station at the time decided earlier on the phone before i left my place,

so that we could leave for the destination, immediately thereafter.
After about 5 minutes i called in,

the answer being that the person was leaving his place,

while i was already been waiting at the station like an "*******"!

I, myself too, get late at times.
I completely know that we live in a metro and you are bound to get late by 5-10 minutes.

but the person came around 20 minutes late,

reason being,

leaving home late and not the traffic neither work or anything of that sort.
Its so bloody frustrating to wait like an idiot at the station.

THIS IS NOT FOR THE FIRST TIME THAT THIS IS HAPPENING,

I have been very clear , direct, indirect and everything to make him understand that,

you have to value other's time.

what if i make you wait even for 5 minutes?
But the person seems unmoved by the constant appeal,

a 'sorry' and a 'new excuse' each and every time on his part seems okay as a justification.

I'm not here to say that he's lying or anything but this is frustrating,

for sure,

for me as a person!

will these people ever change...??
The place,this metro rather has changed,

indicating that the people who make it 'on/before time' are mere idiots and should change on,

to coming late,

as to give people time to have time of their own.
That's right,

then PERHAPS,

ITS HIGH TIME I should change,

i guess,for good,atleast with these people.
And its just that the topic needs to go on that long and that there is not a lot being said.

It is a genre of people who clearly just like arriving late and 'ASSUMING THAT' they're some kinda 'Celebrities'..

infact they themselves celebrate their 'coming late' with all the sugar coated rich in creme` excuses!
for me it is nothing but...

a lack of respect on their part for others as well as themselves.
that makes me conclude,

as we have to weigh out a cost-benefit analysis regarding whether..

the time lost is worth the time we're going to spend later with them,

but this requires an accurate accounting for how much worth these people are..??

I know.. this sounds rude!
If I had known they would continue doing it for so long,

I wouldn't have waited,or may be i would still have,

these people seem to think no end of themselves,

with coming as late as about 1& 1/2 to 2 hours late!

and talking about 20- 25 minutes.. haa--ah..

Its nothing for them!
I have been hopeful, saying that..

in the future,
in the future,
in the future,
At least sometime,

these people will make it in time.
I remember this,

and try to grant more consideration to others than I was given.
I get into an argument with my friends,

and let's say that I ain't so calm and I do have an inside voice.
I feel bad for making it rude,

but I've been so frustrated and angry at them that it was just the tip of the iceberg.
Better now than later.

I think I just got sick and tired of their ways.

they just don't understand sometimes,

and just don't listen to what I have to say.
Everyone told me that it's going to be alright,

but in actuality,

I feel like it's never going to be alright.
Lately,

I feel like I can't talk to anyone,

hence,

writing has been my best friend since times immemorial.
It's a lonesome feeling of being caught between desires and obligations.
I don't think anyone can empathize,

even my closest friends.
I,so desperately, want 'this very something'( people getting late) in my life to change,

whether it's work, family, friends, or love life.
I just need something to change before I turn even more unhappy than the state I am in now.
I realized that I just keep giving.

And giving.
And giving.
To the point,

I don't have anything to give anymore.

Meaning.. I am really running out of patience.

I can't be naive..

I can't be agressive..
I'm so numb and so...distant...that I just don't know what to do anymore.
Everything I say isn't good enough.
Everything I give isn't good enough.
I am just failing at this whole life gig.
I. am. just. so. frustrated.

I end this with an inherent (final) appeal..
Will ya please be on time....??
Cuz i ain't waiting the next time you are late again.
And i'm going to leave for sure!

Sorry for being so rude..

( i know.. that is so 'not me')

But u leave me no choice!
---NVS

U Wanna Opine....???

Before i start blogging here,

i would like to make certain things very clear that what i write here is strictly my opinion and may not be the truth.
It is how i have percieved the world around me.
I do not intend to influence anyone or hurt anyone's sentiments.
It's your wish completely to read this and ignore or take it to heart!!
Though you are invited to comment on my post and tell me if i go wrong somewhere.

“Everyone is entitled to his opinion.”
Oh,

how many times I’ve heard that expression!

Sometimes it’s a matter-of fact statement.
Usually it’s a snide way of saying, “I disagree with you.”

What is this thing called an opinion that everyone has a right to possess?
To get the ball rolling,

here are a few opinions about opinions.
Opinions are beliefs based on imperfect and incomplete information.
Opinions can be a good-faith effort at understanding and stating the truth.
They can also be an emotional shield from inconvenient and painful truths.
An opinion tends to be empowered by the reputation of the opinion holder as well as the number of people subscribing to it.
Opinions are always coloured by personal bias.
All of these thoughts imply there is a qualitative aspect about every opinion.
Bad opinions can be life-threatening — good opinions can be life-changing.
Life’s a challenge for us, individually and collectively,

to sort the good opinions from the bad ones.
So,

as we seek to evaluate the quality of our own opinions and those of others there are some things to consider.
To my way of thinking, unsolicited opinions can be the worst kind.
To preempt your guilt pangs from offering unsolicited opinions,

I will close by inviting your comments.
We probably all have one - an opinion or belief that many people would find fault with and believe we were totally wrong in thinking that.
So what's your one...???

More Illustratively..

o-pine: verb :: To express opinions.
"No doubt she will opine that it is all your fault, dearest, and that I have behaved admirably." -- George Bernard Shaw
It's always possible to find someone undermining your (my) hard-earned vistas on events and things.

I love a WEBSITE,

where opinions were straight and in black and white, no shadows of doubts there.
"This MOVIE sucks"

hey, I'll never go for it! "

Look out, that movie is a masterpiece",
cinemas here I come!

Most of all I loved a movie reviewer speaking weird technical and philosophical terms about movies:

i remember the review of "NO SMOKING",

and how it made me want to see the movie and feel the same hate for the director...
But then I realised:

how many movies did I skip based on bad reviews?

how many more books are there which could cause a sparkle in my mind,

even if everybody agrees it's crap?

why do I feel frustrated...??
and there it came:

the perfect fusion of theory, opinions, historical facts and fiction, that Da Vinci Code which turned everybody in suspicious doubters on everything religious...

maybe we would be adoring some fake icon since too many years...
I bet each one of us would like to be among the jesus and magdalena descendants to watch the world and think "ha!

THAT is something to tell friends at "BARISTA"

I am amazed by how everyone wants to have _their_ view on the facts,

maybe biased and incomplete,

maybe extreme or naive.
And I'm amazed that everything, _everything_, can be questioned
no one likes to be pushed opinions in the head and to realise it..

"Do Opine in here.."

U ALL..

THE NEAREST AND THE DEAREST..
This of-course is just an opinion..

lolzzzzzzz..
---NVS